emdr Therapist Christina Lafferty-Neal

Religious Trauma Therapy
in Nashville

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Therapist Christina Lafferty-Neal
Nashville + Online Across Tennessee

 

I’m a queer woman who grew up as a pastor’s kid in the South.

I know firsthand how complicated faith, family, and identity can become when the same systems that shaped you also caused harm.

 

 
 
 

Religious Trauma is Trauma

Faith can be meaningful and life-giving, but it can also leave lasting wounds. For many people, the same beliefs or communities that once offered belonging can become a source of alienation, shame, or loss.

Clients come to me when they’re experiencing:

  • Constant anxiety or shame

  • Family conflict, especially around holidays

  • Political or identity tension

  • Shame affecting relationships

  • Feeling lost outside of old beliefs

  • Trouble trusting their own instincts and goodness

  • Needing support in coming out or living authentically

This isn’t just “doubt” or “guilt.” It’s trauma. And healing is possible.

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WONDERING IF I CAN HELP?

How Religious Trauma Therapy With Me Works

I use evidence-based and somatic approaches to help you untangle the messages that shaped you, learn to trust yourself again, and build relationships that feel safe and true.

WE’LL PULL FROM:

  • Learn to notice how shame and anxiety live in your body— and how to create grounding and safety within yourself.

  • We’ll process painful memories, spiritual harm, and old belief systems so they lose their grip on your present life.

  • Care for the parts of you that still feel tied to fear, shame, or duty— and reconnect with your core self, the part of you that’s always been steady, good, and whole.

  • Religious trauma often involves loss — of community, belonging, or faith that once felt like home. Together, we’ll honor that grief and make space for what’s next.

LET'S TALK
 

After Therapy, Life Feels Different

Clients often describe changes like:

  • Trusting their own intuition more

  • Feeling grounded in a sense of worth and inherent goodness

  • Building healthier, safer relationships

  • Creating an evolved faith life (or none at all) that feels true to them

  • Living a life that feels authentically theirs

Healing doesn’t mean forgetting where you came from. It means moving forward with freedom, self-trust, and ease in your body.

LET'S TALK
 

Hey, I’m Christina.

People often come to me when they’re carrying the weight of religious trauma — the anxiety, the shame, the struggle to stay connected to family while staying true to themselves. I work with adults who want to heal from the messages that shaped them, learn to trust their own instincts, and feel grounded in who they are outside of old beliefs.

Therapy with me is gentle, deep, and nervous-system informed. We’ll move at your pace, never rushing what needs time. Clients often tell me they feel truly seen and supported in our work together— that the shifts they experience are both emotional and embodied.

I believe therapy should help you do more than recover from the past. It should help you live with more self-trust, freedom, and authenticity in the present.

Before private practice, I spent over a decade working with people navigating trauma in complex and high-pressure environments. That time taught me how to meet people in their hardest moments with steadiness, care, and deep respect for what it takes to heal.

 

GETTING STARTED WITH

Religious Trauma Therapy

 

Starting therapy can feel like a big step — especially if faith or family taught you to put everyone else first. But different doesn’t mean wrong. It might just mean it’s finally time for something that truly fits you.

If a part of you is curious about this work, consultations are always free — no pressure, no judgment, just a real conversation.

SCHEDULE A FREE CONSULTATION
  • Fill out the contact form. I’ll always respond. And if I’m not the right fit, I’ll connect you with someone who might be.

  • We’ll take a few minutes to see if working together feels like a good fit. If it does, we’ll go ahead and schedule your first session.

  • In our first few sessions, we’ll get to know each other and begin building safety and trust. I’ll learn more about your history, your nervous system, and how I can best support you. This is our time to see how this work can serve you.